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Politeness and impoliteness
Task C - Threatening someone’s face
We threaten someone’s positive face by saying critical or unpleasant
things about that person, or things closely associated with him/her (e.g.
‘You plonker!’, ‘What a stupid question!’). Threatening
someone’s positive face is usually impolite socially (but not always),
and will often need to be mitigated if social harmony is to be preserved.
We threaten someone’s negative face by impeding their attempt to
achieve their goals (e.g. being late for a meeting, destroying someone’s
essay notes, using someone else’s food/drink/clothes etc without
asking for permission). Threatening someone’s negative face is often
impolite socially (but not always), and will often need to be mitigated
or atoned for (e.g. by apologising, explaining and buying a replacement)
if social harmony is to be preserved.
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