Politeness and characterisation
On previous pages in this topic we have begun to understand politeness
theory. On this page we are going to examine a short extract from P. G.
Wodehouse's
Come On Jeeves, and explore how our understanding of the two characters,
and their relationship, is manifested in terms of how they use politeness
strategies.
It will be helpful to remember that there are two different kinds of
politeness:
Positive politeness: We feel the need
to be praised by others and so it is polite (a) to praise others (e.g.
‘You’re very clever’) and conversely (b) to dispraise
oneself (e.g. ‘No, I’m a bit thick really’).
Negative politeness: We also like to
go about our business in the world unimpeded. It is polite (a) to ease
the path of others and so (b) make life more difficult for ourselves
in easing the path of others.
Note that you can be badly behaved by doing the opposite of what the
politeness principles suggest (e.g. praising yourself or making others
go out of their way to ease your own path). Try it with your friends,
and see the reactions you get!
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